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Friends do not always think the same way, so misunderstandings can happen even when both people mean well.
朋友之间并不会永远想法一样,所以即使彼此都没有恶意,也还是可能产生误会。
Friends do not always think the same way, so misunderstandings can happen even when both people mean well.
朋友之间并不会永远想法一样,所以即使彼此都没有恶意,也还是可能产生误会。
Good communication with friends begins when we ask what the other person meant, instead of deciding at once that they wanted to hurt us.
和朋友好好沟通,往往开始于先问一问对方到底是什么意思,而不是立刻认定对方就是想伤害自己。
It helps to say clearly what happened and how we felt instead of attacking the other person right away.
把发生了什么、自己感觉如何说清楚,通常会比一开始就指责对方更有帮助。
Listening matters too, because friends often want to feel heard before they can listen back calmly.
认真听也很重要,因为很多朋友都需要先感觉到自己被听见,才比较能冷静地听别人说。
Simple words like I felt hurt, I was confused, or Can we try again can open a gentler conversation.
像“我有点受伤”“我刚刚很困惑”或“我们能不能再试一次”这样的表达,常常能让对话更温和地开始。